When the age difference is too large?
I am 28 and my gf’s 34. Sometimes i feel scared to continue but he makes me happy. You need to. I literally did not even notice them except to realize (what felt like to me) creepy gawking.
Since i have posted this we have had a heart to heart and going to his parents house for my birthday/christmas day, our flights and rental are paid for, so after i spoke to him on how i felt he called his parents and brother and said if they wanted him they were getting me too, and they agreed and so have all his brothers, everyone has changed their plans and we are all going to my boyfriends parents house in oklahoma for the holidays! i’m so happy and excited, he told me he was scared because once they meet me it will change how they see him and it will also get back to his soon to be ex wife and children and that’s what he fears but he also says maybe one day they will come around, or maybe not but he is willing to take that chance! he was married for 32 years to this woman so i doubt he is going to go out and “exchange” me, he didn’t mean to fall in live with me and cause all this pain and hurt for his family (and neither was i) but it is what it is, also, i will not be looking to do this over again to him with someone else, i came on here looking for answers- i know how we’ve gone about our relationship wasn’t the best and karma has made it’s way around believe you me, we’ve gone through a lot this past year and i’m sure much more to go, but i wouldn’t have it any other way- this man brought me back to life and showed me what love really is and for that i’ll pay any price two, three or ever ten times over- i love him with all my heart, and i know he feels the same- neither one of us would have taken such a big risk on one another juss to turn around and do it all over with someone else, so thanks for the advice and telling me something i’ve never heard before or haven’t been told everyday since i took this leap of faith and love with him! it really means a lot to me that you were able to search you heart and be open to giving me real advice and helping out a younger woman/ older man relationship and not sounding exactly like all of our friends and family, that really meant a lot to me!- I don’t ever write to men. You are a 23 year old man and they are not responsible for you any more. She is from ukraine, i am from india. Sex ix felt in the body and then the head. My gf is 11 years 11 months (make that 12 years) younger.
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And she showed up in what looked like the clothes she had been lounging around the house in all day. I was/am unwilling to destroy my children by divorce & he felt/feels the same.
I’m really in love with him and i don’t care what people have to say. Everything is a factor. Thank you so much for sharing! i am currently dating someone 11 years older than myself and have found much comfort in this post and in the comments. I love you georgia.
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She came by my work and told me if i didn’t marry her not to come home so i took off and married her. Her ex and baby-daddy.
Men have been dating younger women since dot so i don’t see a different rule if a woman chooses a younger man as her lover/husband/friend. They are still together after a year and a half. You presume everything about me that comes in the wake of prejudice, but whilst knowing nothing whatsoever. If women wait too long they’re often forced to date older than their ideal (and i’m talking even 8 years older is too old to many women, i didn’t even want to have to settle for that. However when i’m with him and when we talk and relate i feel none of my 51 years nor do i feel him as a 20 year old.
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Its stressful at times but i love him so very much. Look up “age of consent law” in your country. My friend’s experiences are similar.
And if you want to hang out with her, i suggest doing so around her family, not with just the two of you alone, which may bring unwise pressure/temptation into the situation. But i’ve never been in realtionship with such honest communication, respect, and laughter. We have only talked so far, but its pretty flirty, i am not sure if she knows my age, although she has been on my face book and it says my age there.
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I pray and hope that in the future, it would still be her and me. I have found that european women do not have the angry, cynical baggage that many american women are dragging around with them.